New... year, dog, hair, house... NEW YOU!

Isn't it a little funny that New years comes so soon after Christmas? You just got all of this "New" stuff... Then turned around and it was like the government said "Happy late Christmas!!" and threw in a whole "NEW YEAR!!!!" Then there are "new years resolutions" that you throw in as if the new year has something magical about it. I know people who know they need to make a change in their life, but instead of doing it they wait until they can make a "new years resolution". Is  it really that exciting? I wouldn't know... every time I make a "new years resolution" I fail sorely at said resolution. I don't know about you... but I just don't even bother anymore.
I think it's funny though... Everyone makes such a huge deal out of new years when really it's just another day. It is fun to have the big party and stay up all night... But if the world forgot that day one year, it wouldn't be a tragedy.
The entire world has a "New year?... New you!" policy. have you ever heard "Oh... it will be better next year." or "That can wait till next year." I have a question... Does it really?
This is a post to say "HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!"
I actually love the whole new years thing. Even though it is a little silly. Did you know that in China their new years is actually more important than Christmas. In most American homes this is an absolutely absurd thought... But it's true. :P
Anyway... I hope you enjoyed this!
Happy new year to you!
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Merry Christmas!!!

So, as a gift to all of my readers, I'm writting a blog! :O Imagine such a thing! A Blog, on a bloggers profile!!! :P Just kidding.
I wish you all a very merry Christmas. And now I'm going to share with you how wierd my family is.
So, on January 6th my family celebrates something called "3 Kings Day" Which is actually a spanish holiday and they treat the "3 Kings" As most treat "Santa Clause". Which my family doesn't do but we will get to that later. The point is, we don't really do the Christmas thing as you might expect. We open a few things but the fun part is on January 6th! :)
My family tries to focus less on the trimmings for Christmas, and then just blow out on 3 Kings Day. We remember that Jesus came into the world and why. That we hang lights to remember the "Light of the World" aka Jesus. And basically the "True meaning of Christmas" And usually I hate when someone says that anymore because a  lot of people don't even know what that is, they think people should focus less on getting than giving or something like that...
Anyway... January 6th is going to be a much "better" day for me... Pardon my lack of words.

Also... I started out this holiday season thinking that it's my first Christmas with my boy friend, and we  are going to have a lot of fun and do everything... But, turns out he had to go off to Texas for the holiday season and leave me behind... I was definately not thrilled with this. But! I have the good news that we get to spend January 6th together to  celebrate and that will be much more fun for both of us I'm sure. :)

And I know that you all don't really care what goes on in my life... I'm just sort of entertaining. I get it... :P

Never mind that. :P I hope you all have a wonderful day and if you feel like saying "Happy 3 Kings Day" on my post on the 6th feel free! :) I would love to hear from you.

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Who is in your "tent"?

So, last night I had this really weird dream. And this is a blog so I will tell you about it...
There was this tent. In this tent were all the people I have ever known in my life. You know how you have different kinds of friends? Those ones you were close to when you were little, but then you went to different schools? Or the ones who you just know, but you don't really like them or their presence at all? Well... EVERYONE was their. It didn't matter who they were, they were all there. All the guys I have ever liked, all the people who I loved, all the people I don't really enjoy so much, EVERYBODY! And I was walking around arguing with the people I usually argue with, and loving on people who I usually love on; and it got me thinking... Suicide is something that you hear of a lot, and even something that I have tried myself. But how would that effect all the people in that tent? Even the people who don't like me that much would miss me because they won't have anyone else to pick on... Right? :P
But lets think for a minute... How much do you think you would be missed? If you could gather everyone you ever knew in one "tent" so to speak, what would happen? There are those people that you don't enjoy so much, and the people you love. People who hate your guts, the people who loved them. Your childhood playmates, and your friends now. Just everybody, you get the picture. What do you think would go on in that tent? You would get loved on and screamed at, at the same time! Exciting right?
Let's take a minute to think about all the people you have ever affected in your life? What do you want them to think of you when you are gone?
Why don't we all start living like we actually care what people think instead of just blowing them off? Those old ladies in the store who just can't seem to reach the whipped-cream on the top shelf suddenly think the world of you if you say "Can I help you with that?" Especially if you have manners and are a teenager... WOW! You wouldn't believe the faces you get.
This is basically a time for you to think about actually how many people you have affected in your life. There are a lot I'm sure.
Now that I have written all this down... It's early and I am going to try to get more sleep if I can... :P
Thanks for reading!!!! I hope this got you thinking! :)
Also my apologies, I haven't been updating as much as usual... But, here you go. It's an update. I can't count how many times my boyfriend has asked me "When are you going to update your blog?" So Ben... Here you go. :)
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Rain.

H2O... Rain... Umbrella... Clouds... Anything else you relate  to rain?
I love rain, it is a great gift from God! And especially where I live is all desert, a little rain is great! :) I ran in the rain today, and that was a lot of fun! The excitement of rain, cool breeze, and excercise really excites me. And although I feel extremely sore, it's all worth it.
And yes... this was really short, I just thought I would update and tell everyone how much I love rain! :)
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Wait.... I'm how old now?!?!?!?!

Growing up has to be my biggest fear ever. I can remember when i was younger and I thought I had problems... But now! Heavens, I thought I had problems but they were just little itty bitty things. Now i have what seems to me to be even bigger problems. I guess I will look back when I am say 35 and say "Those were *problems!!! I don't think so! Not even close!" Seriously though, how many times have you had to tell someone how old you were, and then directly after thought "Wait... How old did I say I was?!? That's insane! Just yesterday I said I was half that!" Growing up is a scary thing. And everybody has to do it! We all get closer to the time we die from the day we are born. That's just sad to think about. Think about it, we are all old, and dying every day we are older. Crazy I tell you! Just crazy.
Anway... That is my biggest fear. Recently I had to tell someone I was 17, and I was thinking "Really? I'm 17! When did that happen?" I guess for you with kids, when you think of how old your kids are it's even worse because they are so old. You didn't realize yourself getting old, but you realized you kids, and that's probably scarier.
We get so caught up in life, and the older you are the faster it seems to go by. Life has it's own chalenges for whatever part of life you're in. Different people have different challenges,but there is always someone else you can go to with your problem whatever it is.
It is crazy to think though, I am really old... I'm starting to get sore after dancing, and tired... All these new things, I just can't keep up with it all! :P
Anyway... This is just me complaining that I'm so old. XD
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Since when?!?!?!?

Ok.... I think the main thing I want to talk about is: Why do people blame my parents for things that I do wrong? "Your momma taught you better than that." is one of the phrases I hate the most. Since when are my mistakes my parents fault? I can understand the thought process, but really? I make my own choices, please don't judge my parents or any other kids parents for their bad behavior.
Another thing... Please, do not tell other people how to discipline thier children. It is truely not your business if you see a parent spanking their child, or disciplining in any way. Not that I agree that you should strive to publicly display you correcting your child, but if it needs to be done, it needs to be done. Don't judge a parent because it was suddenly necessary to discipline their child while you could see.
Thirdly and lastly: Just because you see a teenager with a todler doesnt mean it is theirs. I have a two year old sister... And I am a senior in highschool. I can't count how many times somebody has asked me "who's the father?" or said things like "Can't you control your baby?" or "She is cute... are you married?" just random strangers! first off, it's not your business, second off why are you suddenly jumping to that conclusion? Do I honestly look like that kind of girl to you? I mean really? Let's think logically. I could understand you thinking that if I wore clothes that don't cover everything they are supposed to, or can be labeled "clothes" at all. But, I don't. So please people... Let's not think every teenager is (for lack of better terms) a slut, because we aren't.
This is my list of "Since when's?!?!?!?" I will probably add to this... but I think this is good for now.
Thanks for reading! I know I haven't updated at all lately... but hey, that's life. :P
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What's expected of a "normal" teenager?

I went through my entire past with people telling me that I would grow up to be really pretty, and have lots of boyfriends, and be married at age 18. As a girl, this is the norm. Well, seeing as 18 is only a short year away from me, I really can't picture myself getting married right now, and at this point in my life. Although I have no doubt that when I do get married I will be ready, it's not happening tomorrow. As a girl it is normal for people to expect you to have a boyfriend, and be dating around from 16-21. Just because this is "normal" doesn't make it right. If you want my advice on relationships just read the blog titled "When God writes a love story" it was uploaded on May 20th. But this isn't the point of this blog.
This blog is to let you know that things are expected of you that shouldn't necessarily be expected. Such as knowing what you want to do with your life when you are an adult, having a boy/girl friend, knowing what college you want to go to. etc. Not everyone knows all this stuff about themselves at age 14. And even if you have a plan at 14 it will most likely change in the future. Having an idea of what you want to do is great! But unless you're a planner like me, don't be to worried about the details. If you take me for example I have had the "details" for my wedding planned out since I was what... 11? Now, things have changed (obviously) but most of it is the same. I won't bore you with my details seeing as if you came to my wedding you wouldn't be suprised, not to mention you probably don't want to know. Anyway... I just turned 17, there is no reason that I should have my whole life planned out, even though I do. A normal teenager doesn't know! There is so much going on in our silly little lives that we have no room for planning. So please, we know it's a good thing to think about... But not everyone knows. My best friend for example has a plan... ish... type situation. She doesn't know exactly what will happen, she just wants to take things as they come, and that's perfectly fine. Not everyone has to have a plan. So you don't have to ask us what the plan is...
Lets face it. Teenagers have a bad rep. So many of us have given into their hormones in horrid ways, but not all of us have... We are unfortunately treated like we are rude, inappropriate, bad mouthing, shove offs. When really most of us aren't. Yes there are some who have no respect for elders, but it's more rare than it is common. If it looks like it's common it's because the teenagers feel like that's what is expected, so they might as well have fun doing it. This is just wrong... Honestly needs to be changed.
I think that's all for now... Thanks for reading! :)
Your faithful writer A J
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